Elder abuse on Long Island: How it happens and what to do about it

By Liza N. Burby | NEWSDAY Updated November 5, 2025 11:32 am If your adult child was abusing you financially, emotionally or physically, what would you do? In New York State, for every one reported case of elder abuse, about 23 typically go unreported, according to the “Under the Radar: New York State Elder Abuse Prevalence Study,” […]
Golf for Good:The Retreat’s Annual Charity Outing Returns
The Retreat Joins Project Connect Plus: Supporting Families Impacted by Addiction and Abuse

The Retreat is proud to join Project Connect Plus (+)—a comprehensive, community-wide initiative now available across Long Island. This unique program offers free, wraparound services for individuals and families navigating addiction, abuse, and economic hardship. Whether you’re facing domestic violence, sexual assault, substance use, housing instability, or food insecurity, Project Connect+ is here to support […]
Career-Styling Workshop Empowers Stephanie House Clients at The Retreat Boutique

Clients at Stephanie House, The Retreat’s emergency residential shelter, receive more than just safety—they’re supported with free counseling, legal advocacy, financial empowerment, and education as they begin to rebuild their lives. One inspiring offering is the Career-Styling Workshop, designed to boost confidence and prepare participants for professional opportunities. The most recent session—held at The Retreat […]
Supporting Older Adults: The Retreat Launches New Abuse in Later Life Program

The Retreat is launching the Abuse in Later Life (ALL) program in Suffolk County—a first-of-its-kind initiative in this region focused on supporting individuals aged 50 and older who are experiencing domestic violence, sexual assault, neglect, or exploitation. In partnership with Sepa MUJER, the Suffolk County District Attorney’s Office, Riverhead Police Department, EAC Network, and the […]
Understanding Gaslighting: Key Examples and Insights

Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation where one person causes another to question their own perception, memory, or sanity. It’s a powerful tactic often used in abusive relationships to gain control. Recognizing gaslighting is essential to breaking free from its harmful effects. Here are some common examples: 1. Denial of Past Events A gaslighter […]
The Retreat Launches Groundbreaking Abuse Later in Life Program to Support Older Adults in Suffolk County
Bystander: What to Do When a Friend or Relative Is in a Harmful Relationship

Many people in abusive relationships may not recognize the abuse or may feel unable to leave. If you suspect that a friend or loved one is experiencing abuse, your support can make a powerful difference. Remember: the decision to stay or leave ultimately lies with them. Your role is to be a consistent, compassionate presence. […]
The Retreat Joins Suffolk County Initiative to Address Child Trafficking on Long Island
February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month (TDVAM)
The Retreat Works to Support and Empower Teens