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Board Leadership at The Retreat

Board of Directors

Domestic abuse is not just a women’s issue, it’s a human rights issue. The Retreat is an invitation for people to stand in solidarity with survivors to create a bold, visible and united force against domestic violence.

Francesca L. Odell

Co-President

Francesca L. Odell has been a board member since August 2016 and is now one of the Co-Presidents of The Retreat’s Board of Directors. Francesca is a partner at Cleary Gottlieb Steen & Hamilton LLP in New York City, and does mainly corporate work focused on public company advisory matters and transactions in Latin America. Francesca shares her time between New York City and East Hampton, and has a husband and two daughters. Francesca works with and supports a number of nonprofit organizations. She speaks both Spanish and Portuguese fluently.

Francesca L. Odell

Co-President

Francesca L. Odell has been a board member since August 2016 and is now one of the Co-Presidents of The Retreat’s Board of Directors. Francesca is a partner at Cleary Gottlieb Steen & Hamilton LLP in New York City, and does mainly corporate work focused on public company advisory matters and transactions in Latin America. Francesca shares her time between New York City and East Hampton, and has a husband and two daughters. Francesca works with and supports a number of nonprofit organizations. She speaks both Spanish and Portuguese fluently.
Co-President

Claudia Pilato

Co-President

Claudia Pilato is the founder and president of Pilato PR + Marketing Consultants, a new firm that brings strategic thinking and smart marketing skills to a diverse group of businesses and non-profit organizations. Formerly, Vice President, Director of Marketing for BNB Bank (BNB) headquartered on the East End of Long Island, she is a tenured marketing professional who has been recognized for creating a strong brand for BNB Bank that helped it grow from a small East End financial institution, to the leading community bank on Long Island. Pilato arrived at BNB in 2004 as a successful marketing professional. Her career began with Burson Marstellar, one of the top Public Relations Firms in New York City. As an account manager in the corporate financial sector, she represented Armco, TRW, and Merrill Lynch among others. A move to Philadelphia saw her start her first firm, Goebel, Kirk & Pilato, an award winning, independent public relations firm focusing on technology, healthcare and financial services. She was involved with opening the first cellular phone market in the country, as well as handling the Senate’s visit to Philadelphia for the Bicentennial of the Constitution. In 1989, she and her husband moved to East Hampton, New York. She continued her career as working with small to mid-size companies, developing strategic marketing plans and implementation. She also served as the Marketing Director for Guild Hall, an arts and theater organization in East Hampton, New York. Pilato is a community activist. In addition to her role as Co-Chair of The Retreat Board of Directors, she is a founding member and Board Chair of All For The East End (AFTEE), an organization that raises funds to support the NPO community of the five east end towns, currently focused on food insecurity and issues related to the pandemic. She is a former board member of the Long Island Community Foundation (LICF), former Chair of the YMCA, East Hampton RECenter, as well as a former board member of the East Hampton School Board and the East Hampton Day Care Center. She was honored in 2018 as a Long Island Power Woman. She and her husband live in East Hampton and New York City. Her two grown children live in New York City and Boston.

Claudia Pilato

Co-President

Claudia Pilato is the founder and president of Pilato PR + Marketing Consultants, a new firm that brings strategic thinking and smart marketing skills to a diverse group of businesses and non-profit organizations. Formerly, Vice President, Director of Marketing for BNB Bank (BNB) headquartered on the East End of Long Island, she is a tenured marketing professional who has been recognized for creating a strong brand for BNB Bank that helped it grow from a small East End financial institution, to the leading community bank on Long Island. Pilato arrived at BNB in 2004 as a successful marketing professional. Her career began with Burson Marstellar, one of the top Public Relations Firms in New York City. As an account manager in the corporate financial sector, she represented Armco, TRW, and Merrill Lynch among others. A move to Philadelphia saw her start her first firm, Goebel, Kirk & Pilato, an award winning, independent public relations firm focusing on technology, healthcare and financial services. She was involved with opening the first cellular phone market in the country, as well as handling the Senate’s visit to Philadelphia for the Bicentennial of the Constitution. In 1989, she and her husband moved to East Hampton, New York. She continued her career as working with small to mid-size companies, developing strategic marketing plans and implementation. She also served as the Marketing Director for Guild Hall, an arts and theater organization in East Hampton, New York. Pilato is a community activist. In addition to her role as Co-Chair of The Retreat Board of Directors, she is a founding member and Board Chair of All For The East End (AFTEE), an organization that raises funds to support the NPO community of the five east end towns, currently focused on food insecurity and issues related to the pandemic. She is a former board member of the Long Island Community Foundation (LICF), former Chair of the YMCA, East Hampton RECenter, as well as a former board member of the East Hampton School Board and the East Hampton Day Care Center. She was honored in 2018 as a Long Island Power Woman. She and her husband live in East Hampton and New York City. Her two grown children live in New York City and Boston.
Co-President

Ellie Kurrus

Vice President, VP Development

Ellie Kurrus has been a board member since September 2016 and is now the Vice President of Development. In 2014, Ellie became a hotline volunteer. Ellie enjoys fundraising and event planning and is a member of AAA soiree committee. Ellie lives in Sag Harbor and NYC and enjoys biking, skiing, boating and art. Ellie chairs the Development Committee.

Ellie Kurrus

Vice President, VP Development

Ellie Kurrus has been a board member since September 2016 and is now the Vice President of Development. In 2014, Ellie became a hotline volunteer. Ellie enjoys fundraising and event planning and is a member of AAA soiree committee. Ellie lives in Sag Harbor and NYC and enjoys biking, skiing, boating and art. Ellie chairs the Development Committee.
Vice President, VP Development

Michael Goldstein

Treasurer

Michael has been an executive in the financial services and technology sectors for over 30 years, advising and collaborating with CEOs, Boards and executive management on legal, strategic, transactional and operational matters. Before joining Xpansiv Ltd. in October 2022, Michael was Chief Legal Officer and General Counsel of Digital Asset, a developer of distributed ledger software technology. Between 1993 and 2017, Michael was an executive with global commodities merchants, including General Counsel and prior to its sale, Co-CEO of RBS Sempra Commodities, Co-CEO of Societé Generale Energy, General Counsel of Castleton Commodities, and Head of Policy & Strategy at JPMorgan Commodities. Michael was a corporate associate at Paul, Weiss, Rifkind, Wharton & Garrison and at Milbank, Tweed, Hadley & McCloy.

Michael Goldstein

Treasurer

Michael has been an executive in the financial services and technology sectors for over 30 years, advising and collaborating with CEOs, Boards and executive management on legal, strategic, transactional and operational matters. Before joining Xpansiv Ltd. in October 2022, Michael was Chief Legal Officer and General Counsel of Digital Asset, a developer of distributed ledger software technology. Between 1993 and 2017, Michael was an executive with global commodities merchants, including General Counsel and prior to its sale, Co-CEO of RBS Sempra Commodities, Co-CEO of Societé Generale Energy, General Counsel of Castleton Commodities, and Head of Policy & Strategy at JPMorgan Commodities. Michael was a corporate associate at Paul, Weiss, Rifkind, Wharton & Garrison and at Milbank, Tweed, Hadley & McCloy.
Treasurer

Jalai Duroseau

Board Member

Jalai Duroseau became a board member in 2020. Counselor and Coach at Southampton Intermediate School, Jalai is also a personal trainer and author.

Jalai Duroseau

Board Member

Jalai Duroseau became a board member in 2020. Counselor and Coach at Southampton Intermediate School, Jalai is also a personal trainer and author.
Board Member

Andrew Stern

Board member

Before launching YorkBridge Wealth Partners, Andy served as a Managing Director at Lebenthal Wealth Advisors where he provided clients with guidance across many facets of wealth management including portfolio construction, planning strategies and wealth transfer. Prior to joining Lebenthal in 2014, Andy spent 17 years at Morgan Stanley and predecessor firms. He first worked as an analyst at Smith Barney Asset Management and then rose through the ranks to become, among other roles, Co-Portfolio Manager of a U.S.-based large-cap growth equity portfolio with nearly $1B in assets. Andy received an MBA degree from the Leonard N. Stern School of Business at New York University and his undergraduate degree from Emory University. He lives in Amagansett with his wife and three children. Andy coaches youth sports; he and his wife are involved in several local non-profit organizations.

Andrew Stern

Board member

Before launching YorkBridge Wealth Partners, Andy served as a Managing Director at Lebenthal Wealth Advisors where he provided clients with guidance across many facets of wealth management including portfolio construction, planning strategies and wealth transfer. Prior to joining Lebenthal in 2014, Andy spent 17 years at Morgan Stanley and predecessor firms. He first worked as an analyst at Smith Barney Asset Management and then rose through the ranks to become, among other roles, Co-Portfolio Manager of a U.S.-based large-cap growth equity portfolio with nearly $1B in assets. Andy received an MBA degree from the Leonard N. Stern School of Business at New York University and his undergraduate degree from Emory University. He lives in Amagansett with his wife and three children. Andy coaches youth sports; he and his wife are involved in several local non-profit organizations.
Board member

Markie Hancock

Board Member

Markie Hancock joined The Retreat Board of Directors in 2022. Markie is a founder of Hancock Productions which has produced a wide array of documentaries. From its initial start in the education niche market, Hancock Productions has expanded into producing documentary-style films for nonprofits and businesses. In addition, Hancock Productions has created a collection of independent documentaries and short films that have been shown at festivals worldwide and are currently in distribution. Markie produced the feature film “The Power of Community: How One Small Town Stood Against Domestic Violence” for The Retreat. The film was a documentary feature at the 2022 Hamptons International Film Festival.

Markie Hancock

Board Member

Markie Hancock joined The Retreat Board of Directors in 2022. Markie is a founder of Hancock Productions which has produced a wide array of documentaries. From its initial start in the education niche market, Hancock Productions has expanded into producing documentary-style films for nonprofits and businesses. In addition, Hancock Productions has created a collection of independent documentaries and short films that have been shown at festivals worldwide and are currently in distribution. Markie produced the feature film “The Power of Community: How One Small Town Stood Against Domestic Violence” for The Retreat. The film was a documentary feature at the 2022 Hamptons International Film Festival.
Board Member

Julie Hatfield

Board Member

Julie Hatfield is co-President of Wright & Company Construction. She has a strong appreciation for integrity of design, having graduated from the Harvard Graduate School of Design with a masters in architecture. Julie strives to do the very best for both her clients and her employees by providing a progressive corporate culture. Julie is active in her local community, living in Sag Harbor with her husband and raising her two children in the local public school system.

Julie Hatfield

Board Member

Julie Hatfield is co-President of Wright & Company Construction. She has a strong appreciation for integrity of design, having graduated from the Harvard Graduate School of Design with a masters in architecture. Julie strives to do the very best for both her clients and her employees by providing a progressive corporate culture. Julie is active in her local community, living in Sag Harbor with her husband and raising her two children in the local public school system.
Board Member

Ryland Hilbert

Secretary

Ryland Hilbert’s family has been part of the Hamptons community for nearly 400 years, and he is proud to continue that commitment by founding Ryland Life Equipment in Sag Harbor. As Co-Founder and Chief Creative Officer, Ryland has curated the most exciting, eclectic, and luxurious experience for consumers on the East End by bringing together the work of diverse designers worldwide with the mission of equipping everyone with whatever life throws at them. Ryland has spent his entire career in fashion in New York, Los Angeles, and now Sag Harbor. Before founding Ryland Life Equipment, he was instrumental in the early success of the pop culture brand Love Shack Fancy, where he orchestrated the opening of their first store in the Hamptons. Ryland also played a pivotal role in the success of the woman’s fashion brand Organic by John Patrick. Before that, he helped expand the apothecary brand Malin + Goetz throughout the New York market. He has also worked for Marder’s in Bridgehampton, New York. In 2019 Ryland decided to parlay his decade-long passion for fashion and retail into his own business by creating a stunning luxury experience for men-Ryland Life Equipment. Founded in a 200-year-old former watchmaker’s store, Ryland launched the brand and quickly expanded to an adjacent iconic building at 155 Main Street in Sag Harbor. Ryland Life Equipment is now a thriving part of the Sag Harbor community and has been acknowledged in Vogue, GQ, The Wall Street Journal, and The New York Times for its unique curatorial perspective. Ryland has also managed a year-over-year partnership with LVMH’s esteemed atelier Loewe with seasonal residencies inside the store. Ryland is also the Founder of the luxury fashion brand Hank Perfect Cashmere. He leads a team of designers and artisans to create a range of beautiful, hand-made Mongolian cashmere clothing and accessories. Along with his board position at The Retreat, Ryland sits on their marketing committee, thrift shop advisory, and gala committees. Ryland received his Bachelor of Science in Advertising, Marketing, and Communications from the prestigious Fashion Institute of Technology in New York and has lived in Southampton, New York City, Los Angeles, and Bangkok. He resides in Bridgehampton with his partner Brad and their two naughty dogs, Hank and Charlie.

Ryland Hilbert

Secretary

Ryland Hilbert’s family has been part of the Hamptons community for nearly 400 years, and he is proud to continue that commitment by founding Ryland Life Equipment in Sag Harbor. As Co-Founder and Chief Creative Officer, Ryland has curated the most exciting, eclectic, and luxurious experience for consumers on the East End by bringing together the work of diverse designers worldwide with the mission of equipping everyone with whatever life throws at them. Ryland has spent his entire career in fashion in New York, Los Angeles, and now Sag Harbor. Before founding Ryland Life Equipment, he was instrumental in the early success of the pop culture brand Love Shack Fancy, where he orchestrated the opening of their first store in the Hamptons. Ryland also played a pivotal role in the success of the woman’s fashion brand Organic by John Patrick. Before that, he helped expand the apothecary brand Malin + Goetz throughout the New York market. He has also worked for Marder’s in Bridgehampton, New York. In 2019 Ryland decided to parlay his decade-long passion for fashion and retail into his own business by creating a stunning luxury experience for men-Ryland Life Equipment. Founded in a 200-year-old former watchmaker’s store, Ryland launched the brand and quickly expanded to an adjacent iconic building at 155 Main Street in Sag Harbor. Ryland Life Equipment is now a thriving part of the Sag Harbor community and has been acknowledged in Vogue, GQ, The Wall Street Journal, and The New York Times for its unique curatorial perspective. Ryland has also managed a year-over-year partnership with LVMH’s esteemed atelier Loewe with seasonal residencies inside the store. Ryland is also the Founder of the luxury fashion brand Hank Perfect Cashmere. He leads a team of designers and artisans to create a range of beautiful, hand-made Mongolian cashmere clothing and accessories. Along with his board position at The Retreat, Ryland sits on their marketing committee, thrift shop advisory, and gala committees. Ryland received his Bachelor of Science in Advertising, Marketing, and Communications from the prestigious Fashion Institute of Technology in New York and has lived in Southampton, New York City, Los Angeles, and Bangkok. He resides in Bridgehampton with his partner Brad and their two naughty dogs, Hank and Charlie.
Secretary

Ayse Manyas Kenmore

Board Member

Ayse Manyas Kenmore
Ayse is a devoted philanthropist, having served on the boards of political, social service, human rights and HIV/AIDS organizations – ranging from Design Industries Foundations Fighting AIDS (DIFFA), The National Aids Memorial, San Francisco Aids Foundation, The S.F. Main Library and a Presidential Appointment to the Board of the Federal Institute of Museum and Library Services, Continuum HIV Day Services as well as, An Uncommon Legacy Foundation. Ayse was born in Ankara, Turkey and now resides in East Hampton. Ayse has extensive marketing and management experience. She received a BA from Connecticut College and MBA from Stanford University and began her professional career at Condé Nast. Together with the late Robert Kenmore, she founded Equivest Partners Inc., a private merchant-banking firm. Kenmore is an avid art collector with a passion for contemporary photographs, Orientalist and Ottoman art and textiles. Ayse Manyas Kenmore has been a board member since February 2011.

Ayse Manyas Kenmore

Board Member

Ayse Manyas Kenmore
Ayse is a devoted philanthropist, having served on the boards of political, social service, human rights and HIV/AIDS organizations – ranging from Design Industries Foundations Fighting AIDS (DIFFA), The National Aids Memorial, San Francisco Aids Foundation, The S.F. Main Library and a Presidential Appointment to the Board of the Federal Institute of Museum and Library Services, Continuum HIV Day Services as well as, An Uncommon Legacy Foundation. Ayse was born in Ankara, Turkey and now resides in East Hampton. Ayse has extensive marketing and management experience. She received a BA from Connecticut College and MBA from Stanford University and began her professional career at Condé Nast. Together with the late Robert Kenmore, she founded Equivest Partners Inc., a private merchant-banking firm. Kenmore is an avid art collector with a passion for contemporary photographs, Orientalist and Ottoman art and textiles. Ayse Manyas Kenmore has been a board member since February 2011.
Board Member

Maria Crocitto

Board Member

Maria Crocitto started as a volunteer at The Retreat and eventually became a Hotline Responder from 2019 to 2023. In this role, she handled a diverse set of responsibilities, including providing emotional support to victims of domestic violence and their families; collaborating with local law enforcement agencies and other community organizations to ensure comprehensive services are available to victims of abuse; and worked closely with social workers, lawyers, therapists and other professionals to coordinate services for clients experiencing complex issues due to domestic violence. Previously, Ms. Crocitto was Director of Public Relations at Arrow Electronics in Melville, NY and Director of Marketing/Head of Public Relations at JPMorgan Chase.

Maria Crocitto

Board Member

Maria Crocitto started as a volunteer at The Retreat and eventually became a Hotline Responder from 2019 to 2023. In this role, she handled a diverse set of responsibilities, including providing emotional support to victims of domestic violence and their families; collaborating with local law enforcement agencies and other community organizations to ensure comprehensive services are available to victims of abuse; and worked closely with social workers, lawyers, therapists and other professionals to coordinate services for clients experiencing complex issues due to domestic violence. Previously, Ms. Crocitto was Director of Public Relations at Arrow Electronics in Melville, NY and Director of Marketing/Head of Public Relations at JPMorgan Chase.
Board Member

Ani Antreasyan

Board Member

Ani Antreasyan has been a volunteer at The Retreat Boutique thrift store since 2023. She successfully arranged for the thrift store to replace its old mannequins with new handcrafted ones from an exhibit on fashion designer Karl Lagerfeld at The Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York City, where she once worked as an assistant to the head designer in the Design Department. After an international education and career based in the arts and business, Ms. Antreasyan has lived in the Hamptons since 2000 and worked in real estate sales at Brown Harris Stevens. Prior to her work in real estate, Ms. Antreasyan worked in interior and exterior design in New York City and the Hamptons, importing European antiques for private clients.

Ani Antreasyan

Board Member

Ani Antreasyan has been a volunteer at The Retreat Boutique thrift store since 2023. She successfully arranged for the thrift store to replace its old mannequins with new handcrafted ones from an exhibit on fashion designer Karl Lagerfeld at The Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York City, where she once worked as an assistant to the head designer in the Design Department. After an international education and career based in the arts and business, Ms. Antreasyan has lived in the Hamptons since 2000 and worked in real estate sales at Brown Harris Stevens. Prior to her work in real estate, Ms. Antreasyan worked in interior and exterior design in New York City and the Hamptons, importing European antiques for private clients.
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