Does Someone? February 18, 2020 retreatwebadmin The following checklist can help you decide if you or someone you know is being abused: Embarrass or humiliate you in front of others? True False Threaten to or physically hurt you, your children or pets? True False Force or manipulate you into having sex, or sabotage your birth control? True False Threaten you with physical harm or weapons, hurt you? True False Threaten to have you deported or threaten to take your children away? True False Make you feel afraid to disagree with them? True False Anger easily when using drugs or alcohol? True False Destroy your personal property? True False Limit your access to money and credit cards? Not allow you to work? True False Want to know where you are at all times? True False Tell you not to see family or friends? Isolate you? True False If you answered “true” to any of these questions, you may be a victim of domestic violence. You are not to blame and you are not alone. One in three women and one in four men will experience domestic violence in their lifetimes. You do not have to face domestic violence alone. You deserve help and help is available. Call Us. We Can Help. (631)329-2200. Time is Up!