The following checklist can help you decide if you or someone you know is being abused: Embarrass or humiliate you in front of others?TrueFalse Threaten to or physically hurt you, your children or pets?TrueFalse Force or manipulate you into having sex, or sabotage your birth control?TrueFalse Threaten you with physical harm or weapons, hurt you?TrueFalse Threaten to have you deported or threaten to take your children away?TrueFalse Make you feel afraid to disagree with them?TrueFalse Anger easily when using drugs or alcohol?TrueFalse Destroy your personal property?TrueFalse Limit your access to money and credit cards? Not allow you to work?TrueFalse Want to know where you are at all times?TrueFalse Tell you not to see family or friends? Isolate you?TrueFalse If you answered “true” to any of these questions, you may be a victim of domestic violence. You are not to blame and you are not alone. One in three women and one in four men will experience domestic violence in their lifetimes. You do not have to face domestic violence alone. You deserve help and help is available. Call Us. We Can Help. (631)329-2200. Time is Up!