Saturday, August 7: Workout with Isaac Boots

Saturday, August 7, 8:30 + 10am
Celebrity Trainer Isaac Boots is presenting two workout classes at CMEE on August 7 where 100% of the proceeds will benefit the East End Fund for Children. Ali Wentworth and Brooke Shields are lending their names to the fundraiser which support seven East End Nonprofits helping children – including The Retreat.
Tickets to Workout with Isaac Boots

July 30 – Labor Day: Shop at Citarella

Friday, July 30 – Monday, September 6, 2021
When you shop at any of the Citarella locations in the Hamptons, you can support the East End Fund for Children by simply rounding up your order at check out.

Designed to meet the needs of the community’s most vulnerable during the ongoing COVID-19 crisis, the Fund for Children helps coordinate the efforts and build the capacity of seven organizations based right here in the East End: The Bridgehampton Child Care & Recreational Center, the Children’s Museum of the East End, the Eleanor Whitmore Early Childhood Center, i-Tri, Project MOST, The Retreat and the Southampton Youth Association.

August 2021: East Hampton Stop & Shop Community Bag Donations

For every Community Bag reusable grocery shopping bag purchased at the East Hampton Stop & Shop during the month of April, The Retreat will receive a $1 donation.

Don’t need a shopping bag? Consider filling it up with groceries and brining it to at the food pantry.

Sunday, May 16, 2021: Shop & Support at Vineyard Vines

Summer is nearly here and it is time to freshen up your wardrobe (because we know you didn’t do it last year!). Stop by Vineyard Vines in East Hampton on Sunday, May 16 between noon and 3 PM. You’ll get 10% off your purchase and Vineyard Vines will give 10% back to The Retreat. You must shop in-store

Sunday, May 9, 2021: Mother’s Day at Tutto Il Giorno

Make your plans today to celebrate the women in your life and support families in need. Celebrate Mother’s Day on Sunday, May 9 at Tutto Il Giorno and support The Retreat. Both the Sag Harbor and Southampton restaurants are donating 20% of their Mother’s Day rosé wine sales to The Retreat. This includes both dine-in and take-out orders. Reserve your table now

Saturday, June 5, 2021: All Against Abuse Virtual Gala

Join The Retreat on Saturday, June 5, 2021, at 6 pm as we gather in a virtual celebration of survivors and the heroes that help them thrive. Together we are working toward a world where no one lives in fear of abuse, harassment, or assault. Together we offer hope. For more information on the event, how to become a sponsor, or to register to attend, visit the All Against Abuse event page here.

March 20, 2021: J. McLaughlin Sip & Shop

Sip, Shop & Celebrate spring at J. McLaughlin in Southampton and Bridgehampton. Join us for light sips and refreshments while you shop the J. McLaughlin Spring Collection in support of The Retreat.

Visit in-store with social distancing or shop virtually. Enjoy curbside pickup, local delivery, and complimentary shipping.

To shop virtually, call or email the stores directly with your order. The Southampton store can be reached at 631-204-0183 or The Bridgehampton store can be reached at 631-537-1962 or

15% of all sales on this day will benefit The Retreat

Power Women of Long Island

Power Women of Long Island virtual event on Thursday, December 17 at 7 pm.

Join The Retreat and Dan’s Papers for the Power Women of Long Island Awards virtual event on Thursday, December 3 at 7 pm. Loretta K. Davis, The Retreat’s Executive Director, will be honored at the event. Join us and learn more about The Retreat’s current initiatives and how we are supporting our community during these times. RSVP at

SHAN Trunk Show

SHAN EAST HAMPTON hosts an exclusive Trunk Show October 23 – October 26, 11 am to 5 pm. 3 North Main Street, East Hampton.

They will be donating 10% of sales to The Retreat.

The show includes MayaBags and fashionably unique pieces made for a comfortable and chic look. Their exclusive Italian made silks, wools, and prints are designed to create complete and flawless looks for the season. Entirely designed and made in Canada.

Domestic Violence Awareness Month

During Domestic Violence Awareness Month in October, The Retreat is taking the opportunity to share information on available services and empower our community to help those who are experiencing violence in their lives.

Domestic abuse has long been an unspoken epidemic. For those suffering abuse in their homes, the restrictions needed during the COVID-19 pandemic has put them in greater isolation and more danger than ever. You can help them.

Join us and share your voice with a donation and by sharing your support on social media using #HearMyVoice. Visit us on Instagram and Facebook to hear the voices of others in our community. Your support helps bring a family one step closer to an abuse-free life. 

Nancy Cohn Memorial Tennis Pro-Am

September 12, 2020 at 11:30 am

Sportime Amagansett is supporting The Retreat by hosting the third annual Nancy Cohn Memorial Pro-Am.

You can’t be at the US Open this year but you can join The Retreat for Tennis on Saturday, September 12 at Sportime Amagansett.
Players will get Pro instruction, competitive play and a Rose Brunch, all for $200 per player. All proceeds from the event benefit The Retreat.

Join us for a great afternoon of tennis – and still make it home in time to see the US Open Women’s Finals! DONATE HERE

Thank you to Sportime Amagansett for hosting our annual tennis tournament and to all of the tennis pros who donate their time to the event. Masks required for spectators, social distancing and all safety precautions will be adhered to.

Polkadot England

July, August, September 2020

Polkdot England is supporting The Retreat by donating a portion of their sales during July, August, and September.

You can shop their collections for women and children online at or by visiting their retail location at 150 Main Street, Sag Harbor.

Collections include tops, shorts, joggers, lounge wear, face masks, pajamas and more.

Artists & Writers Charity Softball Game

Postponed until 2021

The East Hampton Artists & Writers Charity Softball Game has been postponed due to COVID-19. The game was scheduled for August 15 in Herrick Park.

“We held on to the hope of our having a game for as long was we could,” said board president Benito Vila. “We’re postponing until next year. Maybe then, we’ll play two. Our not being able to assure the health and safety of fans and players made the decision an obvious one for us. The board had been planning on having the 2020 game take on the socially distanced, picnic-like feel of the original 1948 game, but recent events locally and nationally caused everyone involved to reconsider that approach.”

This summer, the non-profit has started an Artists v. Writers 2020 Charity Challenge on GoFundMe. The goal is to raise $30,000 for four local charities, with 100 percent of net proceeds benefiting The Retreat, The Eleanor Whitmore Early Childhood Center, East End Hospice and The Phoenix House.

You can click to donate to either the artists or the writers, adding to the tradition of friendly competition between the two. Place your bet, and your donation, on the team you want to win.

Getting Along (Virtual) Story Time

Wednesday, August 19 at 10 am

Children and parents and/or caregivers are invited to join the The Retreat and Diana, the John Jermain Library’s Children’s Librarian, for this special monthly story time! We will be reading books on topics such as: lending a hand at home/how kids can help, acceptance, racism, bullying, celebrating individuality and more! This session’s book will be “Harvesting Friends / Cosechando Amigos.”

Please have crayons or markers and paper on hand so that children can participate in an art activity to go with the stories. At the end of the session there will be time to ask questions and/or comments for The Retreat’s Prevention Education Specialists.

Check out this video to see highlights of July’s story time program.

Sign on details at

Sunset Garden Film Series

Mondays in July & August at 7:45 pm

Special Effects Salon & Tea in Greenport (455 Main Street) is hosting this outdoor classic film series to benefit The Retreat and presented by Historical Films. Tickets are $25 per screening with a seating limit of 25 people. Guests should bring their own chair and canteen beverage. Iced tea and popcorn will be for sale. Face coverings and social distancing required.

July 6 and July 13: ROCK, ROCK, ROCK (1956)

July 20 and July 27: HIS GIRL FRIDAY (1940)

August 3 and August 10: DETOUR (1945

Getting Along Storytime

Wednesday, July 15, 10 am

This week The Retreat is continuing our celebration of diversity with a free, interactive read-aloud hosted by The Retreat’s Prevention Education Specialist Denise Silva Dennis, along with Sag Harbor pre-k teacher Mindy Reyer in partnership with John Jermain Library.

Children and their families or caregivers are welcome to join us on Wednesday, July 15, 10am-10:30am.  More information and the Zoom link are available at John Jermain Library here:

We are also happy to discuss bringing The Retreat’s Getting Along Story Time program directly to schools and other groups in the community either remotely, or when people are back in school, live!

HamptonsLIVE: IG Live Shopping Event

Saturday, July 18, 3-6 pm


Hamptons Live is a digital shopping event wrapped up in a Hamptons style Garden Party for all those babes who are either in the Hamptons with limited shopping options or wishing they could be there enjoying a summery Pop-Up.

Co-producers, PopUpSummer! and A.Lynn have organized a 3-hour affair for anyone with an IG account to experience a fun-packed day, including: shopping must-have brands, meeting female founders in one-on-one interviews, getting sneak peeks into summer trends, hearing from the brands about new products, and partying as a collective to the sounds of DJ Nicole Rosé, one of New York’s most in-demand DJs–while sipping on delicious signature cocktails created by Pomp and Whimsy and Nomadica Wine.

The event will be hosted by DJ Nicole Rosé, herself, on her brand new podcast, SupBabe, Instagram account @SupBabePod. Sup, babe? is a one stop shop to help women live their best lives with trends, pro tips & PSA’s. So, if you want to join in, please make sure you are following @SupBabePod to watch live.

If you want to go a step beyond, and experience the party like you were there with us, then opt for the VIP ticket that will include a signature HamptonsLIVE tote bag with the supplies you’ll need to partake in the same summery cocktails, music, and more… Plus, you will find great goodies from all of the brands that will be at the pop-up, and a portion of your ticket price will go to benefit the charities we are supporting through this event, Campaign Zero and The Retreat. We couldn’t be more excited to have a virtual shopping party and give back to organizations we believe in!