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Southampton Woman Honored As “Woman Of Distinction”

A Southampton woman recently won the 1st Senatorial District’s Woman of Distinction Award for rising above a life of domestic violence and giving back to the community.

Nicole Behrens, a mother, wife and assistant vice president at Merrill Lynch who enjoys riding motorcycles and kayaking, is also a domestic violence survivor, according to Senator Kenneth P. LaValle’s office. Mr. LaValle bestowed the honor on Ms. Behrens late last month in Albany.

“Nicole is an extraordinary individual who is a genuine hero living, working and giving on Long Island’s East End,” Jeffrey Friedman, executive director of The Retreat, a domestic violence shelter and agency in East Hampton, is quoted as saying in a statement issued by Mr. LaValle’s office.

Ms. Behrens has volunteered regularly at The Retreat, where she has worked toward boosting fundraising efforts and ensuring the shelter is fiscally sound. She has also devoted time to speaking and writing to inspire other women to lift themselves and their children from domestic violence.

A native of Port Washington in Nassau County, Ms. Behrens rose through the ranks of her career in financial services, from an assistant on a municipal bond desk to assistant vice president at Merrill Lynch—all while enduring violence at home, the statement reads. “She escaped the violence and went on to help the community in ways that honored and leveraged her personal journey, her story, her professional skills and her passion for helping others,” Mr. LaValle is quoted as saying.

The Senate’s “Women of Distinction” seeks to honor New York women who exemplify personal excellence or whose professional achievements or acts of courage, selflessness, integrity or perseverance serve as an example to all New Yorkers.

http://www.27east.com/news/article.cfm/General-Interest/383117/Southampton-Woman-Honored-As-Woman-Of-Distinction

Publication: The Southampton Press
By Colleen Reynolds   May 11, 2011 9:42 AM
May 11, 2011 10:18 AM

WCC hosts Retreat speaker

  WCC hosts Retreat speaker Board President Barbara Olton (left) of the Retreat, the only domestic violence agency on the East End, was the featured speaker at the Women’s Community Club monthly luncheon on March 1 . Phyllis Wallace, program chair, introduced her. Beverlea Walz photo

 

Artists Against Abuse

The 15th year of this annual event will feature a silent auction of specially commissioned hand-painted 9″ x 12″ canvases and a live auction of select original works of art. The evening includes cocktails, food and entertainment. To date, this signature event has raised over $1 million for the Retreat and its mission.  Visit http://www.artistsagainstabuse.com/ for more info and to purchase tickets.

 Date:            June 26th 2010

 Time:           6pm – 10:00 pm 

 Location:     Ross School, 18 Goodfriend Drive, East Hampton, NY

Celebrity Host:      TBD

Master of Ceremonies:      Gina Glickman
News 12 Correspondent, Host of “What’s Hot in the Hamptons”, Entertainment Reporter

Hope Award Honorees:     Richard Demato, Yvonne Lieblein  & Josh Horton, and Jordan Bacher

Event Design by Maria McBride and Russel Kolody

For more information contact the Development Team at 631.329.4398, visit www.artistsagainstabuse.com  or download the  2010 Sponsorship Packages here.

Schneiderman To Issue Proclamation To ‘Woman Of Distinction’

Montauk – Suffolk County Legislator Jay Schneiderman (I-Montauk) will honor Shirley Katz of Montauk with a proclamation for being selected by the Suffolk County Women’s Advisory Commission as the countywide “Woman of Distinction” for 2010 at the next Suffolk County Legislature’s General meeting on March 2, 2010 at 9:30 a.m. Riverhead County Center.

January of each year Suffolk County Legislators select a “Woman of Distinction” who resides in his or her respective Legislative District. By selecting a Woman of Distinction from each County Legislative District, the County is acknowledging and recognizing the contributions of all women to advance our county and our state. The Suffolk County Women’s Advisory Commission selects a county wide “Woman of Distinction” in February from the eighteen honorees selected in each county. When chosen the individual will be honored at the March meeting of the Suffolk County Legislature meeting.

Katz is a professional business woman and a compassionate humanitarian who has extended herself to assist others within her local community for over 70 years. She worked with many organizations including pre-school nursery, PTA, Girl Scouts, Boy Scouts, library programs, town soup kitchens, the American Cancer Society, Concerned Citizens for Montauk, Montauk Youth, the Montauk Artists’ Association, Jewish Center of the Hamptons; along with many other groups over the years.

Upon retirement, Katz and her husband moved to Montauk full time and volunteered at The Retreat in East Hampton. Following a six week program to recognize domestic violence and make appropriate referrals, Katz began to answer The Retreat’s domestic violence hotline. Katz did such a wonderful job as a volunteer at The Retreat that they offered her a paid position as an administrative assistant. Each week, on one of her days off, she volunteers to work the register at The Retreat’s thrift store at the Bridgehampton Commons.

Katz is a woman truly worthy of the day’s honor and the everlasting gratitude of Suffolk County.

View the entire article from Hamptons.com here

President of the Retreat announces first ever East End Social Services Summit

The Retreat finished 2009 in the black, primarily due to the extraordinary generosity of the current board, and other community donors, but still faces a deficit in 2010!  

We realize that not every non-profit has this as an option, and has not been as fortunate as us in achieving this goal. However, we can’t do this on an ongoing basis either.

These are unique times and problems which offer all of us the challenge to find new and creative methods to achieve our mutual goals. In order for us to do so and better serve the citizens of our community, collaboration needs to occur.  We need one another now more than ever.  The Retreat cordially invites you to an East End Social Service Summit on 1/22/2010, from 5:30PM to 7:30PM, at the Richard J. Demato Gallery at #90 Main Street, Sag Harbor. Please respond quickly as space will be limited. Please RSVP to Kathy Schad of The Retreat at (631) 329-4398 or Kathy@theretreatinc.org.

 At the summit you will learn more about The Retreat’s mission and vision for the future. You will also have the opportunity to share and discuss the purpose and goals of your non-profit affiliations, and hopefully we can learn, and grow through sharing with one another. We seek a symbiotic relationship wherein we can join together and work collaboratively on activities that will help the greater good of our community. We believe working together will yield an enhanced mutual success beyond what any of us can do alone.

 I urge you to get involved and to add to the quality of life, right here in our community. Help the needy women and children that are not sharing your current lifestyle and are certainly not living the American Dream. Together we can do more.

Please choose to make a difference in our community, it will not only change their life, but I promise it will improve yours too! I know, I’ve done it. Sincerely, Richard J. Demato, Board President